Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationship. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Should women wait for the right guy?
Should women wait for the right guy?
Should women wait for the right guy? That is the question that we are going to give a damn time to answer.  Ok, let's start first by talking to whom this question is address to.  This question is not for those high school kids who are about to enter a romantic  relationship, or some divorced moms out there.  This is for those twenty something to middle-aged women who are heart broken, but hmm yap it can be applied to anybody.  Anyways,  let me start by sharing that should it worth to wait for the right guy, or should I say is there really a right guy?  When a woman experienced pain from separation, it feels like it is the end of everything and so with the guy, but when it comes to acceptance that you guys are no longer together, well it depends on how you handle the situation.  I am no psychology shit, but my experienced thought  me a lot and not only that, I have also did some observation and analysis to some of my friends in terms on how they cope with their situation and be able to feel love again.  

Monday, August 18, 2014

Bag-o palang gibalita nga may naghikog sa Cebu ug kaning balitaa ni landing sa daghan karadyohan ug TV sa visayas, ang balita gilambigit sa usa ka lalaki nga ni ambak sa IT2 building ug maoy hinungdan sa iyang kamatayon, sa pag susi sa hinungnan tungod kini sa Gugma.  Ang pangutana angay jud ba diay pakamatyan ang imong uyab kun gipulihan ka ug mas pa nimo? Ang tubag niana ? depende sa resulta sa Tanduay...eheheh joke.  Kun ang usa ka tao maka feel ug depression naa sya sa situasyon nga namahala na kun unsay dangatan niya, ug hadlok kana nga situasyon, kun may third eye palang ka murag naa nay lungon nagsunod sunod anang taohana.  Usa ka sakit nga dilikado ang depression suma pila na ang nangamatay tungod sa hikog.   Ang sakit sa gugma kun kamao lang pod ang tao mo dala makaya man ug sulbad, pinaagi ug diversion --- yeaah!!! E divert nimo imo attention sa alin mga butang nga makahatag nimo ug laing lingaw ug pag gana nga move on.  Ofcourse ayaw pod ng drugs, or subra nga tagay -- k matiwasan ka ana .

  Kun tinuoray jud ang gugma nga imo na feel dili jud na kalikayan ng super sakit na cya, pero alkansi pod ka kaau kun ang imong kalipay gisalig ra nimo sa gugma tanan.   Kun may gimahal ang tao tinood kana nga cya ang naghatag nimo ug kalipay, pero dapat maghuna huna pod ka nga pangitaa pod ang lain purpose nimo gawas sa gugma, example: Kun may talent ka sa pagkanta, sayaw, sports, DOTA, ug uban pa kanang mga butanga usa pod na nagahatag nimo ug purpose aron malipay pod ka sa imong pagpuyo aning kalibutana. Gitagaan ta sa atong Ginoo ug saktong pangisip aron pahimuslan ang atong talento ug e share sa ubang mga wala niini. Sa pagbuhat ana maka divert na sa imong attention anang blima nimo sa gugma, ang maanindot kun imo tagaan ug saktong pagtagad ang mga hiyas nimo pwede ka maka meet ug mas labaw pa sa imong ex.  Dili jud sakto nga maghikog ka para ipakita nimo sa imong ex nga gihigugma nimo cya kaau, kabalo ka ngano? K kibir rana nya, kun naa gani panag bulag sa relasyon tungod kana kay may gusto mo nga dili mo parehas, mao nga mobiya jud ang imong  paris, ug angay ka mo sabot ana ug himoon nimo na nga challenge dili nga magpadala hinoon ka, the more ka magpadala the more ka ma alkansi.  Ug kun balikan man lang ka sa imong uyab tungod sa kalooy lisod kaau na dili mo malipayon anang duha kun mag romansa mo ana, ikaw raw nag piyong piyong nya ang imong uyab gi basahan lang ka ug newspaper.  Respeta-e nalang ug dapat maningkamot ka nga maka paa asenso ka sa imong kaugalingon para mapa kita nimo nya nga you can be somebody without her or him. 

 Kun naa ka sa higayon nga nag inusara, keep in touch sa imong mga barkada, e open nila ang imong blima ayaw tago-tagoa ang blima nimo sa imong uyab let them know k mo advise mana sila.  E duwa na ug mga games, e zipline, e kaon sa mga pagkaon nga wala pa ka katilaw, e tour sa mga lugar nga wala nimo na laag, buhata ang mga things nga mga cool nga dugay nimo nang giplano suwayan, the more you involve sa daghan klasi klasing mga lingaw mo tubo ang imong gana mobuhat ug laing mga butang nga magpa develop nimo sa imong skills, career, social life ug uban pa, after few months ma realize nimo nga you change, you become cool and different and you become wiser in looking for a new partner.  Ang reason nga daghan maghikog mabuwagan tungod kana kay nitoo sila nga wala nay lain source sa ilang kalipay kay nawala na ilang partner, ug nagtoo sila nga wala nay purpose ang ilang life tungod sa pagkawala, pero kun daghan ka ug gsugdan sa imong kinabuhi nga maka hatag nimo ug lain source of happiness? Walay blima nga magdugay sa imong dughan ug kun may sakit ka gusto kaau ka mabuhi pa ug dugay.  Rock in roll!!!!

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Good day mga higala kani nga article para ni sa mga bati ug nawong nga nangandoy pod tawn nga maka uyab nga gwapa.  Actually, kana nga pangandoy makaya man pero kun ato jud ng tagaan ug dakong pagtagad lisod na nga ambition, ngano? Kay kanang baye nga imong gi pangandoy nga ma uyab nga may dagway nangandoy pod tawn na ug gwapo. Naa koy mga nakita nga mga studyante sa kalainlaing mga universidad sa Bohol, Cebu, Dumaguete ug sa Bacolod nga kun maka kita kalang sa ilang mga partner nga mga laki maka ingon jud ka nga asa kaha naka palit kadtong inatay ug lumay.  
Oh yeah!  Pero kadtong tawhana naka pabor lang nga aduna siya nagunitan nga alas nga maoy naga hatag ug pag-kagana sa iyang uyab, nga pisting malasa man jud ug dagway tawhana, gwapo pa ang chihuahua nga cockroach, pero unsaon kanang alas nga nga naa niya mao nay naghatag niya ug pabor, ug  kaya nimo na maab-ot k dili ni kalabutan ug kwarta ug pagka dato. Pero kun dili nimo na maasawa kanang bayhana sa sulod sa 2 or 3 ka tuig, mapulihan ka ug gwapo daun kay kahibalo naka ngano.

Friday, August 31, 2012


Author: Teepot
Sometimes we wonder whenever we see a couple wherein the guy is a western man (he could be American, French, or Canadian) and the girl is a Filipina. We all know the negative street talk about this kind of relationship but we shouldn’t always look at it that way. In this article, we will look at it from a different perspective. 

We will tackle why the man decided to be with that woman. Well, obviously the man isn’t racist. That’s for sure because he wouldn’t dare go near a Filipina if he was.
A Filipina is known to be very hospitable (Filipinos, actually.) She is family-oriented, loving and caring towards her family members, respects her elders, and fears the Lord. She is humble in terms of race, she knows the stand of her country, but that doesn’t mean she is ashamed of being a Filipina. A Filipina has moral values and sticks to it.
 

author: teepot
We often find ourselves in situations wherein we can’t take it anymore and the thought of giving up, of letting go, is somehow the only thing left to do. We all know breaking up with a guy isn’t easy. The thought of telling him that you don’t want to be in a relationship with him anymore and the guilt of hurting his feelings just kills you inside because you know that there was a time he was the only reason behind your smile.

Tough decisions are called tough because they’re not easy to make. It’s not easy to regret because once it’s done, it’s done. We can never take back the things we’ve said and we can try to fix things but they will never be the same way ever again. So it’s better to think things over before actually doing them. First of all, why do you want to break up with him? You need to keep in mind that your boyfriend has feelings and compared to bones, human emotion is much more, much, much, more fragile. Make sure that your reason is valid if you know what I mean. In other words, once you break up with him, because of your reason, he would actually understand why you’re doing it which is better since it will leave no room for any arguments. 


Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Teenage Pregnancy and Pre-marital sex
Author: Teapot


The continuous search for love and contentment gives us the idea that if we're in a relationship, we instantly get these things but no we don't. The love we are looking for, the attention we seek, the contentment we keep on searching for can not be found in another person. Why is it that we look for love? Why is it that we crave for attention? Because we don't get them from the people who are supposed to be giving it to us and that is our families or whoever matters to us the most. A lot of teenagers feel so unloved, feel so ignored in their own homes that they've decided to look for it outside of their homes.

We find a partner yet it is not yet enough. Here's the thing, love is always enough. Enough to forgive, enough to understand, enough to trust, enough to change a person. Yet why are we hurrying? We all know that sex is supposed to be after marriage yet if love is enough wait, why can't we? Is the love not enough? Pre-marital sex, and then when the girl gets pregnant the guy suddenly disappears, the relationship collapses and we end up with nothing but regrets. Now, can you still call that love? There is a right person out there for you and you should know that. Here's the thing, if you are aware that the right is out there and you believe that someday, somehow you two will meet, you will reserve yourself because we don't want the right person to receive what is left of us.


Just because you’re single, doesn’t mean you should be sad
Author:  the Teapot

In the world we're living in today, having a partner is pretty much a big deal. It's like everywhere we look there are couples holding hands, guys holding their girlfriends' handbags, and other actions that show "affection". Single guys and single girls often go "chick hunting" or even "Hot chunky man hunting" just to find a partner. This boyfriend-girlfriend trend has taken over the minds of our youth. I'm not saying that it is bad to be in love or that love is bad. But the fact that we can't be satisfied with being single is bad because it is unfair to look for contentment and satisfaction from other people.
We all have this idea that we will be happy when we have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. And to most single people, they feel sad and degraded whenever they see a couple. Being in a relationship doesn't instantly mean that you are happy. Because no matter what, if you're not happy with what you have, if you're not happy with yourself, you will never be happy with or without a partner. Sooner or later you will come to realize that you aren't contented with your partner and that will lead to cheating which will lead to more problems. We have to know that it's better to be happy alone rather than be with someone, yet you're unhappy.

Sunday, July 1, 2012


Human Brain Analysis - Man vs. Woman

1. MULTI-TASKING
Women - Multiple process
Womens brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time.
Women can Watch a TV and Talk over phone and cook.
Men - Single Process
Mens brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men can not watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. they stop the TV while Talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.


Saturday, June 16, 2012

What are your steps if you are in love with your best friend? This is a very popular scenario in most friendship; you feel in love and don’t know what to do.  If you are in love with your best friend and if you are going let it out the feelings, there are two possible outcomes that you probably experience. The first is that he or she will say the same feelings as yours and the other one is that he or she might tell you the opposite of the first that he or she does not have any romantic feelings for you and this could end up a good friendship in most cases.  This is what we called crossing the line from the friendship border and what ever outcomes you will face from telling your feelings, there is a possibility that you might lose the good friendship that you share with him or her.  It is very clear that crossing the line is a risk so you have to think it over and over again before doing so.

The perfect relationship guidance to deal with such situation is to give some time to ponder things first before making any move of expressing your feelings.  Take your time in understanding whether your feelings for her or him are really true or is it just a fascination.  Try to ask your self "Am i really in love with my best friend?" then here are reliable signs of being in love which will help you to outline out your feelings to your best friend.

Am I really in Love to My Best Friend?  Know the Signs of Love

if you are really in love to your best friend try to find out whether it is just a physical attraction or really emotional.  Having a close friend we show care and physical attraction, that emotionally we have reservations and limitations.  But if you truly care for your best friend's well being, you will make ways to make him or her happy and if you feel if you are a kind of friend who will do everything for her happiness then most likely you are in love.

When you are in love with someone, the other person is always on your mind. Thinking about the moments you two spend together invariably brings a smile to your face. You remember each and every of his likes, dislikes, whims, etc. When you go out, you make plans keeping the other person's interests in mind. If you feel you are doing the same, it is one of the signs that you are falling for your best friend.

It is frequently seen that people who are in love want to appear their best, particularly when they meet the person they are falling for. If you started to change your fashion and style just to impress her or him, then you have started to have those great feelings of Love.

Most likely we trust our friends it’s very common we trust our best friends, but still we keep some of our secrets. But when started to openly share everything to her or him good or bad news, when your trust and faith to her or him has no limitations or reservations or no limits, then that is something to do with your emotional feelings to your best friend.
And lastly you usually support your best friend when he or she is in love to someone. But when you started to feel jealousy and annoyance from the constant show of attraction from the 3rd party, then you are in love my friend.
The point here is how long you are going to hide your feelings to your best friend?  If you think you are best for her or him face the risk and say the words – I LOVE YOU.
There people who regrets the opportunity in their lives for not telling their feelings to their best friends and they ended in an unsatisfying relationship.  Love has no limits and no boundaries it is not designed for those believe in love at first sights or whatever, but sometimes love comes and grow from friendship.  So face the risk and express your feelings to her or him. 

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

We all say that love is the reason why two people stick together, but if love starts moving to somebody else, well its gonna be a big problem.  The feeling of losing  your feelings to your partner (boyfriend or girlfriend)  is the reason why there are so many cheating cases happening in this world.  Love is the food in every relationship we should always feed it with affection, understanding, care, etc.  If love is gone anything could happen that will surely destroy the wonderful relationship you have.  So if your feeling starts fading then be responsible not to give up so easily on your relationship, there is always a solution and there is always a way to bring that feelings alive again.  So here are great stories about how to handle situation like this.
Here are reliable answers from our friends online on how to handle yourself when your love one is in love to someone else:
She seems unsure as to act on her feelings even though she most likely knows how you feel too. She probably does like someone else because it is possible but i would wait if you really want to be with her. If she is sure that she would want to be with you she would not hold back and so she is unsure at the moment.
Just wait for her and if you do, she'll definitely come around to find that you are willing to wait for her.

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I'm the girl in your situation. I'm in love with someone but i cant have him and i know that. its almost impossible for me to think about liking anyone else but finally i found a guy that i think i may really actually like, so i told him my situation. I'm obviously not going to fall out of love with the other guy immediately but having a new guy to get to know and have fun with is really helpping me move on from my first love. I'm not using him by any means...i actually really do like him and he understands whats going on with me. give her time...she does like you and she will eventually get over the other guy. just make sure you don't hurt her.
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It's possible to love someone who loves someone else. It happens all the time. It's not a healthy situation to be in and can be quite miserable. Look at it this way. There is someone out there who would love for you to love THEM. If the one you are in love with now loves someone else there's nothing you can do. He or she may be in that very situation too for all you know - the person he or she loves may love someone else. You deserve to be loved just like everyone else and while I know you can't just suddenly stop loving someone you have to live your life the best that you can. Get out and enjoy your life, socialize, try your best to have fun. If the relationship is meant to be it eventually will be. But in the meantime don't stop living your life for this person. I wasted over two years of my life for someone who couldn't care less about me, was almost ruined financially because he caused me to lose my job, I was forced to take a horrible job (no other jobs were available) wherein I was required to work hundreds of hours overtime in a year and never got paid for it (not yet at least), and was the subject of verbal abuse and intimidation at the horrible job I had to take in order to support myself. I walked around in a fog - in LaLa Land, totally in love with the person and making excuses for his behavior. I never did anything wrong to deserve what I got. Never got an explanation. No apology. Nothing. I finally realized that he was rocking along enjoying his life, doing well in his career, and probably never gave me a second thought after drop-kicking me into the twilight zone. So try this: Place a value on yourself. Realize that you deserve love, you are capable of loving someone, and you have a lot to offer someone. Do not waste your time mooning over someone who is probably off enjoying his life with someone else. This doesn't mean you are supposed to instantly stop loving that person but over time you will learn to live with it and will move past it. Someone eventually will come along who WILL love you, appreciate you, and will sweep you off your feet! I've heard of a country song (I'm not a country music fan) but it's called Thank God for Unanswered Prayers. I've never even heard all of the song but I can say from experience that it's a good title. There have been so many times that I was grateful a few prayers of mine weren't answered as I found out later that the job I really, really wanted ended up being a horrible job with a horrible boss and a high turnover - they couldn't keep one single person there. Another time was over a guy. I was in my early 20s. I thought he was "it on a stick." I found out much later that what he pretended to be and what he actually was were two totally different things. I was very thankful that prayer wasn't answered too. Life is too short. Live your life as best you can. Things will work out the way they are supposed to.
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I think that men always want to feel number one and that they probably won't get over the thought that she might want someone else more.
BUT I think that you could be her number one, once she starts having a relationship with you. If you are having a happy relationship she has no reason to leave you for someone else, and she will as well has doubts that this other guy might drop her again.

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I think it's still a little too early for him to jump into a relationship with her. She was so in love with her ex that she was willing to throw things away with this guy in order to get back with the ex, but since he didn't want her now she's ready to move on?
Sorry, but I wouldn't chance it. I think she's not over the ex and if he comes back wanting her to be with him, you'll likely be dumped to the side just as you were before.

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Things to do...
  1. You have to get the thought of that person out of your mind. This can be done by getting busy with something else. Make sure you're not left all by yourself with your thoughts.
  2. Always think of the mistakes of the person, this will help you build up a negative perception of that person.
  3. Stay emotional balanced by attending social gatherings (not clubs, or any where where lovers are).
  4. Attend sporting exercises that are a bit physical like lawn tennis, swimming, football etc. This will help shake your thoughts out and bring you out of yourself.
  5. Read the bible and get to know Jesus. (This actually works magically).

Saturday, May 5, 2012

The women pride can kill a man
Women are known to be full of pride and that’s what makes them different from men.  Men do have pride same as women, but men can control of it for the sake of love and devotion.   In every relationship there are many scenarios that men almost got killed because of women’s pride and this is not a joke.  When a man falls in love to a woman he would do everything just to express his feelings and love to that lucky girl and that includes giving up his pride.

Many preachers today focused on pride as being one of the most damaging aspects of the human behavior.  But I would say that depends on to what level you use your pride, some say it could cause sin and could misguide a person.  In a couple’s quarrel pride is the driving force that worsens the condition and in most cases men are the ones surrendering their pride just to end the fight.



Most women put their pride as a very essential thing to everything they do and think.   For instance, when dating and you are late for 5 minutes you better start looking for white roses and practice your  apology, because she is no longer smiling when you see her. Women with pride would not think of your 5 minutes late as a mere natural or unexpected mistake,  but rather an act of betrayal and insincerity to your promises.  Sometimes they only value your politeness and obedience, while your health and safety are being left aside.    They keep telling you what is right for you, and when you advise what's best for them -- they won't listen.   Pride thought them to be superior when they are not, gives them strength when in reality they are weak.  How do you think your relationship would survive if your girlfriend is full of pride?  

How many cases of suicides that struck the world? Many of these suicides were caused of love quarrels and misunderstanding and it is always men have the number of deaths by suicide.   I have witnessed many relationships that men acted like a slave to their women. I don’t think that men deserve to be a slave for the heck of love, but I think that is how the game is played in a relationship.
Because of pride most Women are blinded by the reality that their men have sacrificed everything for them.   Pride makes the woman authoritarian on her decision making, it makes her to demand and demand.  A good relationship should learn to embrace love instead of pride and there you can find real happiness in your relationship.  Our women should be a bit pragmatic on every decision they make and more patience in every hostile situations. Pride kills understanding and patience, and the worst thing it murders Forgiveness.

The root of cheating in relationship is not always because of selfishness of the opposite sex, but because of pride. 


Cheating Issues - What will you do if you caught him cheating? Well many spouses would rather kill their husbands..hehehe, its only a joke.  Let's get serious because it is really a very serious topic especially for a married couple experiencing issues in their relationship.  Solving the problem of your husband who is having an affair requires serious patience and understanding.  You must go to the root on how it all started and  when you have a  good discussion with him you must willing to listen.  What ever is your conclusion to his explanation you must always remember that you are married to him and you have children who love their father too.
Here is a cool explanation of a Married woman regarding that problem:

I just finished reading an excellent book that deals about marriage issues.  The book is entitled: The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands and was written by Dr. Laura Schlessinger. I did not buy this book until I heard it from my book lover friends.   They advised me that the book has many good advises about marriage and etc.  Most of my friends are married and they had problems with their husbands, but they said the book helped them to overcome their problems and in fact it changed them to become perfect housewives. So I bought one copy and I started to read it. I saw myself within its pages, I had read the reason on why he changed and the fading of his desire towards me.  The lack of desire  was destructive to not only to  our marriage, but to the well being of our family.  I found out that the reason why he was losing his desire for me was my being too selfish to him.   But after reading the book, I understood ( finally) that  I must loosen some bolts of my behavior, my husband has every right for the betterment of the family and our relationship.  Dr. Laura explained that there are many things we do in life that we are not really in the mood for. for example: do you simply stop working because you are not in the mood to go to work? Does she stop washing or cooking simply because she is not in the mood to do the laundry this month? Or does she let the baby cry and cry because she is tired or not in the mood to care for her child? And I finally understood each person has the need to be loved and cared, and as a family, we must meet these needs for one another.

Here are the best tips from The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands that can help you:

Try to find out the root cause

When you finally could set your mind at rest, talk to him privately. Ask him why he is cheating. Is he bored with you? Has he lost interest to you? Could be that he is cheating because you don’t care about him? Regardless if you still want to be with him or not, knowing the root cause can help you prevent similar incident in the future. Understand this; there are 2 types of man; one that would always looking for some meaningless wild sex and the other that try to find a new romance. Some women might be able to accept the first, but rarely can accept the latter.

Give him a piece of your mind

After hearing all his side of the story from him, now it is your turn to talk. You have the right to yell at him. You are a tsunami of pain, sadness and anger. Take it all out on him. Cheating is by far worse than a polygamous.

Time to decide

When both sides of the stories are told, now it is time to decide. Regardless the root cause of the cheating, you must decide what works best for you. Can you accept & forgive the fact that he had cheated on you? Would you stay by him knowing that there is a chance that he might do that again? Don’t try to keep the broken relationship just because you had been with him for long time. This is personal and the right decision is not the same for all women. If you decide to end the relationship, end it gracefully.

Giving him another chance

If you decide to give him another chance, do not seek for revenge. Having an affair just to get even with him does not make sense. No one would benefit from that. When you have chosen to accept and forgive, payback is not justified. Everybody makes mistake. Since you have made the decision, you should not invoke this matter during future arguments. Evoking the incident is not going to make things better instead it might cause other issues in your relationship.

Seek Counseling

The next step is to seek for couples counseling. It is generally performed by a family therapist. Couples counseling is a confidential and non judgmental process that is aimed to help a couple to better understand and manage problems in the relationship.



Thursday, March 29, 2012

Nurses Talk - Monthsary is the first special occasion you’ll ever experience in having a relationship, since there’s no weeksary, daysary, hoursary, and of course, there’s no secondsary. Do you still remember your first boyfriend/girlfriend? Seems like the days run just too slow before your most awaited first ever monthsary arrives. Excited and exhausted at the same time? You probably can’t stop thinking what would happen. Practicing what you’re going to do? Hmmn, sounds funny.
Well, monthsaries might not be given much attention, especially by those who are busy. Some may think of it as just a pretty simple occasion to be celebrated, and that, it doesn’t have any significant to a relationship at all. But, on the other hand, monthsary is still a quite important factor to be dealt with in having a love life.
Monthsaries come before any anniversary. Every single activity that you’ve done together with your loved one within those rolling days of your relationship is still worth remembering and celebrating, isn’t it? The rolling months emphasizes that your relationship is growing. It would also be so flattering if your partner would be able to remember the date when you committed yourself to one another; this is particular with the girls. They like to be remembered always. That is, if possible, the guy should think about nothing other than the girl. In short, girls are selfish. Selfish in a way that, they want to be the center of attraction of their guy in every single second that passes by. And in connection to this, girls would feel so sweet if her guy would remember their monthsary. It’s not necessary to buy any stuff, a simple but meaningful greetings will do.


Young teenagers probably won’t get this matter. All that matters for them right now is companionship. Having someone to hang out with is enough for them. Knowing the person more is not so important, what’s important is that they have the same interests. Some are not able to reach even a week together. It’s like; they’re not even giving attention to the idea if they’re really in love or what. So, we suppose, they’re not really into celebrating monthsaries at this point in time right? Maybe someday they’ll do.
            But above these all, it's still up to the couple if they would agree to celebrate their monthsaries or not. Some that already achieve their anniversary aren't celebrating their monthsaries anymore. Occasions really don't matter that much, what's important is the feelings that you have for each other.

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Nurses Talk - Here is a shitty blog on how to end up a good relationship, but i suggest do not do it if you do not have the balls. And you still have the great feelings better not to it. But what about you are almost dead in feelings and believe on nothing anymore. Here is how:
  • First step: You better see you girlfriend or boyfriend in person, and tell your partner about you are breaking up with her or him for real. Doing this is appropriate, than expressing your decision on the phone or text messages, that would surely hurt the person more. 
  • Second Step: You better be strong when you think the relationship is already shaky.  Expect that worst scenarios could possibly come and you better have strength to face it. Plan a few points to cover so that your girlfriend or boyfriend understands everything you are trying to communicate.  It is also effective to take notes if you think it will add assistance to remember, but never read the notes during the actual break up.
  • Third Step: When you do say the words of breaking him or her make it sure in a private place so that your partner is free to cry or let go their emotions. Having a quite place is effective it will give a chance for your partner to express her or his anger without embarrassment. A break up is a hard thing even when both parties want it. There's no reason to make it harder by ending the relationship in a public place.
  • Fourth Step: Better that you keep communicating on everything to your partner regarding the reasons of breaking up, your  partner has the full rights to know.  Stay away from cliches that don't help the process. It is appropriate and healthy to tell the truth out of respect to your soon to be ex-girlfriend. This will help her learn from the relationship and to move on from it.
  • Fifth Step : You better answer all questions your partner will ask from you, this is will give her understanding, which then would give her acceptance. If there aren't particularly hard feelings, you both might want to set up rules about a future friendship. If there are hard feelings,better settle things out, because if not unsettled feelings can cause trouble in your future relationships. Any items left at each other's homes should be accounted for as well as any items owned jointly.
When we are into great relationship breaking up is a stupid idea.  When you think that breaking up is only solution then before doing it, try to evaluate everything first if it is really worth.  Because it is very very sad to think of hurting someone and ourselves too.  Better we seek for positive things before giving up.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Nurses Talk- Valentines Day is a celebration of sharing and giving of the best sweets, yap I am talking about cakes and pies.  Pies are very easy to make and for many years pies were used as gifts and a symbol of love, peace, romance, happiness, etc.  When you receive a pie most likely it is created specifically for the celebration and most pies are created uniquely.  So here are the best pie recipes you can think about for this Valentines Day.

1. Valentine’s Pie

Things to prepare:
  • 3 egg whites
  • 2/3 cup sugar
  • 1 tsp. baking powder
  • 10-15 reduced fat chocolate sandwich cookies, coarsely chopped
  • ½ cup fat-free cream cheese, softened
  • ¼ cup powdered sugar
  • 1 cup thawed fat-free whipped topping
  • 1 cup sliced strawberries
  • 1 cup raspberries
Instructions:
Beat egg whites with electric mixer on high speed until soft peaks form. Separately mix sugar and baking powder; gradually add to egg whites, beating until stiff and glossy. smoothly stir in chopped cookies. Spread into lightly greased 9-inch pie plate (or into a greased heart-shaped pie plate). Bake at 350°F for 25-30 minutes, or until lightly browned. Cool completely. Beat softened cream cheese until smooth. Add desired powdered sugar. Fold in whipped topping. Spread this mixture into cooled crust; top with berries. Serve immediately.
2. Easy Valentine Fruit Pie
Things to Prepare:
  • Pre-made gram ham cracker pie crust
  • 1 large can strawberry pie filling
  • Cool Whip
  • Red food coloring
Instructions:
Color cool whip with little drops of red food coloring until it's your preferred shade of pink. Pour pie filling into the pie crust and crest with cool whip. Chill for two hours.
3. Valentines Day Strawberry Marshmallow Supreme
Things to Prepare:
  • 1 9 inch grapham cracker pie shell
  • 1 can Milk, scalded
  • 12 Marshmallows, chopped
  • 1 can Thick cream
  • 1/2 cup Chopped nuts
  • 2 cups Crushed strawberries, drained
Instructions:
To scalded milk, add marshmallow pieces. Let cold to lukewarm. Put the cream and add into milk-marshmallow mixture. Fold in nuts and berries. Pour into pie shell and chill 8-12 hours.

4. Valentine Cherry Pie

  • Things to prepare:


    1 Cup Sugar
    ¼ Cup Flour
    ¼ tablespoon Cinnamon
    ¼ tablespoon Almond extract
    1-1/3 T Butter (about 4 teaspoons)
    1 16 oz. Can of pie cherries, NOT cherry pie filling (look for Dark Sweet Pitted Cherries packed in water)
    Pastry for double-crust pie

    Instructions:
In saucepan, mix sugar, flour, cinnamon and undrained cherries. Cook over average heat, stir continually until mixture thickens and boils (about 7 minutes). Take away from heat and stir in with almond extract.
Pour mixture into a 9-inch unbaked pie shell. Do it with butter. Cover with top crust, stick down edges and crimp. If a lattice crust is not used, place one or some vents in the crust. Bake at 425°F for 30 to 35 minutes until crust turns brown.

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Thursday, November 24, 2011

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Nurses TalkI want to do something for me. I want you to imagine that you are married to someone. If you are married to someone you can still participate, just imagine the person you are married to. Now I want you to imagine the point of your marriage where things are rough, difficult, maybe you are not the cute couple you two use to be before. You two use to be sexually active, but now you two are not even sleeping in the same bed. Now I want you to imagine you coming home from work. You get off earlier than usual, and you come home to see a car parked in front of your house. You don't know who it is but you have a feeling like something is not right. Sure enough you enter to find your husband/wife is indeed having a having an affair behind your back.
How do you feel? What do you do? Is this right?

Source: HOW TO NEVER DIVORCE - by

Nurses talk - How to have a good family? Is by keeping your relationship alive and stronger, the more stronger the relationship the more healthy the family. Here is a very interesting article made by bornblond about keeping-up a good family and to avoid divorce.

How to never divorce the big all time question for married couples today.It's no big secret that the divorce rate in our society today is none other than sky high.It is essential that before the fact of divorce we learn what we can do to eliminate this threat to our families.So go ahead read on as we fight together to save the family.

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Many were saddened by the death of the loved Princess of England, Princess Diana.  She died together with her boyfriend Dodi Fayed in Paris.  The couple were killed in a car accident while their car was chased by paparazzi.  Before the gruesome accident that killed the couple and their driver, there were so many issues that surrounds their forbidden relationship.  Diana's boyfriend was a Muslim from a very influential and rich family, while Princess was the mother of the future King and head of the Church in England.  That made speculations to many  people especially those who love Princess Diana so much, that the accident killed her and her boy friend was not natural, but rather planned in order to avoid further issues and troubles to the future of the  Royal family.
According to statistics that a quarter of UK people and many people from some Arab nations convinced that there was a plot to murder the Princess.  The motivations were driven from different issues that already circulated to the past activities of the Princess with Dodi, such as the issues of the possible marriage plans of the couple, the Princess intention to change religion, and the issues of pregnancy and that she was to visit Vatican.  Organizations which conspiracy theorists suggest are responsible for her death have included French Intelligence, the British Royal Family, the press, the British Intelligence services MI5 or MI6, the CIA, Mossad, the Freemasons, or the IRA.

source: Wikipedia

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Sunday, October 16, 2011

When we discuss age differences in relationships, we are reminded of the famous couple Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. Looking at their successful relationship, despite the enormous difference in age, one often wonders, "Is the age difference in relationships really matter?"

Well, the answer really depends on the foundations of the relationship. Age Differences in relationships are not much of a problem if the intentions of both parties while entering the relationship are straightforward. If an older person looking for a girl just to re-assure himself that he was still sexually attractive, or if a younger man dating an older woman on her way just because of his seeking security, and so the relationship is doomed from the start. But if the relationship is based on similar interests and values, with strong chemistry, so it is bound to stand the test, despite the age gap.

In fact, age differences in relationships can sometimes have very positive effects on both parties. Often it is seen that a younger partner brings most of the energy and spark of life in older partners. Simultaneously, the older partner gives the younger partner in the much needed emotional stability. The reverse may be age differences would be very difficult, especially in social situations where both parties find it difficult to adjust to each other, other friends and family. So for all people concerned about this issue in the relationship and age difference, here are some helpful relationship advices.
Tips on how to handle differences in the relationship Age

when dealing with age differences in relationships, the first thing you need to do is to remember to say, "Age is just a number" and follow it. If you have a younger partner, do not brag about it to your friends or family. Even while talking to your partner is not acting as a parent. You have a partner, so you must act like one. In this case the partner is older, to do the same, namely to act as a straight man.

For older women dating younger men, large age differences in relationships can create a lot of uncertainty. An older woman can always be concerned that a young woman will steal her husband. And if the woman is younger and the older person, the person may experience the same feelings. This can create a lot of self-esteem issues. In cases like these, is the right thing to do to have a talk with your partner and re-insure through your actions and words, from time to time about your love for them.

Another consideration issues that couples with age difference face is the inequality in the tastes of music, movies or television. The older partner may be interested in reading a book or watch TV staying indoors. On the other hand, the younger partner may always up for outdoor activities like going to a disc or playing sports. In such situations, couples should not escape generational gap on this issue, because such differences were found in the same age partners. The right thing to do in this situation is to go in for activities that one partner likes a weekend and go through the selection of the other is next weekend.

Like any normal, healthy relationship requires a relationship with a considerable age gap between partners a great commitment from both. There are always people, whether they are friends or relatives who already have something or other to say about the acceptable age difference in relationships and even renewed pressure you think. Standing by your partner in such a situation, and keep in mind that compatibility is more important than a number that will help you in your relationship work. Someone has just said, "Age is strictly a case of mind over matter. If you do not mind, it does not matter."

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