Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Monday, August 18, 2014

Bag-o palang gibalita nga may naghikog sa Cebu ug kaning balitaa ni landing sa daghan karadyohan ug TV sa visayas, ang balita gilambigit sa usa ka lalaki nga ni ambak sa IT2 building ug maoy hinungdan sa iyang kamatayon, sa pag susi sa hinungnan tungod kini sa Gugma.  Ang pangutana angay jud ba diay pakamatyan ang imong uyab kun gipulihan ka ug mas pa nimo? Ang tubag niana ? depende sa resulta sa Tanduay...eheheh joke.  Kun ang usa ka tao maka feel ug depression naa sya sa situasyon nga namahala na kun unsay dangatan niya, ug hadlok kana nga situasyon, kun may third eye palang ka murag naa nay lungon nagsunod sunod anang taohana.  Usa ka sakit nga dilikado ang depression suma pila na ang nangamatay tungod sa hikog.   Ang sakit sa gugma kun kamao lang pod ang tao mo dala makaya man ug sulbad, pinaagi ug diversion --- yeaah!!! E divert nimo imo attention sa alin mga butang nga makahatag nimo ug laing lingaw ug pag gana nga move on.  Ofcourse ayaw pod ng drugs, or subra nga tagay -- k matiwasan ka ana .

  Kun tinuoray jud ang gugma nga imo na feel dili jud na kalikayan ng super sakit na cya, pero alkansi pod ka kaau kun ang imong kalipay gisalig ra nimo sa gugma tanan.   Kun may gimahal ang tao tinood kana nga cya ang naghatag nimo ug kalipay, pero dapat maghuna huna pod ka nga pangitaa pod ang lain purpose nimo gawas sa gugma, example: Kun may talent ka sa pagkanta, sayaw, sports, DOTA, ug uban pa kanang mga butanga usa pod na nagahatag nimo ug purpose aron malipay pod ka sa imong pagpuyo aning kalibutana. Gitagaan ta sa atong Ginoo ug saktong pangisip aron pahimuslan ang atong talento ug e share sa ubang mga wala niini. Sa pagbuhat ana maka divert na sa imong attention anang blima nimo sa gugma, ang maanindot kun imo tagaan ug saktong pagtagad ang mga hiyas nimo pwede ka maka meet ug mas labaw pa sa imong ex.  Dili jud sakto nga maghikog ka para ipakita nimo sa imong ex nga gihigugma nimo cya kaau, kabalo ka ngano? K kibir rana nya, kun naa gani panag bulag sa relasyon tungod kana kay may gusto mo nga dili mo parehas, mao nga mobiya jud ang imong  paris, ug angay ka mo sabot ana ug himoon nimo na nga challenge dili nga magpadala hinoon ka, the more ka magpadala the more ka ma alkansi.  Ug kun balikan man lang ka sa imong uyab tungod sa kalooy lisod kaau na dili mo malipayon anang duha kun mag romansa mo ana, ikaw raw nag piyong piyong nya ang imong uyab gi basahan lang ka ug newspaper.  Respeta-e nalang ug dapat maningkamot ka nga maka paa asenso ka sa imong kaugalingon para mapa kita nimo nya nga you can be somebody without her or him. 

 Kun naa ka sa higayon nga nag inusara, keep in touch sa imong mga barkada, e open nila ang imong blima ayaw tago-tagoa ang blima nimo sa imong uyab let them know k mo advise mana sila.  E duwa na ug mga games, e zipline, e kaon sa mga pagkaon nga wala pa ka katilaw, e tour sa mga lugar nga wala nimo na laag, buhata ang mga things nga mga cool nga dugay nimo nang giplano suwayan, the more you involve sa daghan klasi klasing mga lingaw mo tubo ang imong gana mobuhat ug laing mga butang nga magpa develop nimo sa imong skills, career, social life ug uban pa, after few months ma realize nimo nga you change, you become cool and different and you become wiser in looking for a new partner.  Ang reason nga daghan maghikog mabuwagan tungod kana kay nitoo sila nga wala nay lain source sa ilang kalipay kay nawala na ilang partner, ug nagtoo sila nga wala nay purpose ang ilang life tungod sa pagkawala, pero kun daghan ka ug gsugdan sa imong kinabuhi nga maka hatag nimo ug lain source of happiness? Walay blima nga magdugay sa imong dughan ug kun may sakit ka gusto kaau ka mabuhi pa ug dugay.  Rock in roll!!!!

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Good day mga higala kani nga article para ni sa mga bati ug nawong nga nangandoy pod tawn nga maka uyab nga gwapa.  Actually, kana nga pangandoy makaya man pero kun ato jud ng tagaan ug dakong pagtagad lisod na nga ambition, ngano? Kay kanang baye nga imong gi pangandoy nga ma uyab nga may dagway nangandoy pod tawn na ug gwapo. Naa koy mga nakita nga mga studyante sa kalainlaing mga universidad sa Bohol, Cebu, Dumaguete ug sa Bacolod nga kun maka kita kalang sa ilang mga partner nga mga laki maka ingon jud ka nga asa kaha naka palit kadtong inatay ug lumay.  
Oh yeah!  Pero kadtong tawhana naka pabor lang nga aduna siya nagunitan nga alas nga maoy naga hatag ug pag-kagana sa iyang uyab, nga pisting malasa man jud ug dagway tawhana, gwapo pa ang chihuahua nga cockroach, pero unsaon kanang alas nga nga naa niya mao nay naghatag niya ug pabor, ug  kaya nimo na maab-ot k dili ni kalabutan ug kwarta ug pagka dato. Pero kun dili nimo na maasawa kanang bayhana sa sulod sa 2 or 3 ka tuig, mapulihan ka ug gwapo daun kay kahibalo naka ngano.

Friday, August 31, 2012


Author: Teepot
Sometimes we wonder whenever we see a couple wherein the guy is a western man (he could be American, French, or Canadian) and the girl is a Filipina. We all know the negative street talk about this kind of relationship but we shouldn’t always look at it that way. In this article, we will look at it from a different perspective. 

We will tackle why the man decided to be with that woman. Well, obviously the man isn’t racist. That’s for sure because he wouldn’t dare go near a Filipina if he was.
A Filipina is known to be very hospitable (Filipinos, actually.) She is family-oriented, loving and caring towards her family members, respects her elders, and fears the Lord. She is humble in terms of race, she knows the stand of her country, but that doesn’t mean she is ashamed of being a Filipina. A Filipina has moral values and sticks to it.
 

Wednesday, August 15, 2012


Just because you’re single, doesn’t mean you should be sad
Author:  the Teapot

In the world we're living in today, having a partner is pretty much a big deal. It's like everywhere we look there are couples holding hands, guys holding their girlfriends' handbags, and other actions that show "affection". Single guys and single girls often go "chick hunting" or even "Hot chunky man hunting" just to find a partner. This boyfriend-girlfriend trend has taken over the minds of our youth. I'm not saying that it is bad to be in love or that love is bad. But the fact that we can't be satisfied with being single is bad because it is unfair to look for contentment and satisfaction from other people.
We all have this idea that we will be happy when we have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. And to most single people, they feel sad and degraded whenever they see a couple. Being in a relationship doesn't instantly mean that you are happy. Because no matter what, if you're not happy with what you have, if you're not happy with yourself, you will never be happy with or without a partner. Sooner or later you will come to realize that you aren't contented with your partner and that will lead to cheating which will lead to more problems. We have to know that it's better to be happy alone rather than be with someone, yet you're unhappy.

Sunday, July 1, 2012


Human Brain Analysis - Man vs. Woman

1. MULTI-TASKING
Women - Multiple process
Womens brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time.
Women can Watch a TV and Talk over phone and cook.
Men - Single Process
Mens brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men can not watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. they stop the TV while Talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.


Wednesday, May 23, 2012

We all say that love is the reason why two people stick together, but if love starts moving to somebody else, well its gonna be a big problem.  The feeling of losing  your feelings to your partner (boyfriend or girlfriend)  is the reason why there are so many cheating cases happening in this world.  Love is the food in every relationship we should always feed it with affection, understanding, care, etc.  If love is gone anything could happen that will surely destroy the wonderful relationship you have.  So if your feeling starts fading then be responsible not to give up so easily on your relationship, there is always a solution and there is always a way to bring that feelings alive again.  So here are great stories about how to handle situation like this.
Here are reliable answers from our friends online on how to handle yourself when your love one is in love to someone else:
She seems unsure as to act on her feelings even though she most likely knows how you feel too. She probably does like someone else because it is possible but i would wait if you really want to be with her. If she is sure that she would want to be with you she would not hold back and so she is unsure at the moment.
Just wait for her and if you do, she'll definitely come around to find that you are willing to wait for her.

------------------------------------------------------------------------
I'm the girl in your situation. I'm in love with someone but i cant have him and i know that. its almost impossible for me to think about liking anyone else but finally i found a guy that i think i may really actually like, so i told him my situation. I'm obviously not going to fall out of love with the other guy immediately but having a new guy to get to know and have fun with is really helpping me move on from my first love. I'm not using him by any means...i actually really do like him and he understands whats going on with me. give her time...she does like you and she will eventually get over the other guy. just make sure you don't hurt her.
------------------------------------------------------------------------
It's possible to love someone who loves someone else. It happens all the time. It's not a healthy situation to be in and can be quite miserable. Look at it this way. There is someone out there who would love for you to love THEM. If the one you are in love with now loves someone else there's nothing you can do. He or she may be in that very situation too for all you know - the person he or she loves may love someone else. You deserve to be loved just like everyone else and while I know you can't just suddenly stop loving someone you have to live your life the best that you can. Get out and enjoy your life, socialize, try your best to have fun. If the relationship is meant to be it eventually will be. But in the meantime don't stop living your life for this person. I wasted over two years of my life for someone who couldn't care less about me, was almost ruined financially because he caused me to lose my job, I was forced to take a horrible job (no other jobs were available) wherein I was required to work hundreds of hours overtime in a year and never got paid for it (not yet at least), and was the subject of verbal abuse and intimidation at the horrible job I had to take in order to support myself. I walked around in a fog - in LaLa Land, totally in love with the person and making excuses for his behavior. I never did anything wrong to deserve what I got. Never got an explanation. No apology. Nothing. I finally realized that he was rocking along enjoying his life, doing well in his career, and probably never gave me a second thought after drop-kicking me into the twilight zone. So try this: Place a value on yourself. Realize that you deserve love, you are capable of loving someone, and you have a lot to offer someone. Do not waste your time mooning over someone who is probably off enjoying his life with someone else. This doesn't mean you are supposed to instantly stop loving that person but over time you will learn to live with it and will move past it. Someone eventually will come along who WILL love you, appreciate you, and will sweep you off your feet! I've heard of a country song (I'm not a country music fan) but it's called Thank God for Unanswered Prayers. I've never even heard all of the song but I can say from experience that it's a good title. There have been so many times that I was grateful a few prayers of mine weren't answered as I found out later that the job I really, really wanted ended up being a horrible job with a horrible boss and a high turnover - they couldn't keep one single person there. Another time was over a guy. I was in my early 20s. I thought he was "it on a stick." I found out much later that what he pretended to be and what he actually was were two totally different things. I was very thankful that prayer wasn't answered too. Life is too short. Live your life as best you can. Things will work out the way they are supposed to.
------------------------------------------------------------------------
I think that men always want to feel number one and that they probably won't get over the thought that she might want someone else more.
BUT I think that you could be her number one, once she starts having a relationship with you. If you are having a happy relationship she has no reason to leave you for someone else, and she will as well has doubts that this other guy might drop her again.

------------------------------------------------------------------------
I think it's still a little too early for him to jump into a relationship with her. She was so in love with her ex that she was willing to throw things away with this guy in order to get back with the ex, but since he didn't want her now she's ready to move on?
Sorry, but I wouldn't chance it. I think she's not over the ex and if he comes back wanting her to be with him, you'll likely be dumped to the side just as you were before.

------------------------------------------------------------------------
Things to do...
  1. You have to get the thought of that person out of your mind. This can be done by getting busy with something else. Make sure you're not left all by yourself with your thoughts.
  2. Always think of the mistakes of the person, this will help you build up a negative perception of that person.
  3. Stay emotional balanced by attending social gatherings (not clubs, or any where where lovers are).
  4. Attend sporting exercises that are a bit physical like lawn tennis, swimming, football etc. This will help shake your thoughts out and bring you out of yourself.
  5. Read the bible and get to know Jesus. (This actually works magically).

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Cheating Issues - What will you do if you caught him cheating? Well many spouses would rather kill their husbands..hehehe, its only a joke.  Let's get serious because it is really a very serious topic especially for a married couple experiencing issues in their relationship.  Solving the problem of your husband who is having an affair requires serious patience and understanding.  You must go to the root on how it all started and  when you have a  good discussion with him you must willing to listen.  What ever is your conclusion to his explanation you must always remember that you are married to him and you have children who love their father too.
Here is a cool explanation of a Married woman regarding that problem:

I just finished reading an excellent book that deals about marriage issues.  The book is entitled: The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands and was written by Dr. Laura Schlessinger. I did not buy this book until I heard it from my book lover friends.   They advised me that the book has many good advises about marriage and etc.  Most of my friends are married and they had problems with their husbands, but they said the book helped them to overcome their problems and in fact it changed them to become perfect housewives. So I bought one copy and I started to read it. I saw myself within its pages, I had read the reason on why he changed and the fading of his desire towards me.  The lack of desire  was destructive to not only to  our marriage, but to the well being of our family.  I found out that the reason why he was losing his desire for me was my being too selfish to him.   But after reading the book, I understood ( finally) that  I must loosen some bolts of my behavior, my husband has every right for the betterment of the family and our relationship.  Dr. Laura explained that there are many things we do in life that we are not really in the mood for. for example: do you simply stop working because you are not in the mood to go to work? Does she stop washing or cooking simply because she is not in the mood to do the laundry this month? Or does she let the baby cry and cry because she is tired or not in the mood to care for her child? And I finally understood each person has the need to be loved and cared, and as a family, we must meet these needs for one another.

Here are the best tips from The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands that can help you:

Try to find out the root cause

When you finally could set your mind at rest, talk to him privately. Ask him why he is cheating. Is he bored with you? Has he lost interest to you? Could be that he is cheating because you don’t care about him? Regardless if you still want to be with him or not, knowing the root cause can help you prevent similar incident in the future. Understand this; there are 2 types of man; one that would always looking for some meaningless wild sex and the other that try to find a new romance. Some women might be able to accept the first, but rarely can accept the latter.

Give him a piece of your mind

After hearing all his side of the story from him, now it is your turn to talk. You have the right to yell at him. You are a tsunami of pain, sadness and anger. Take it all out on him. Cheating is by far worse than a polygamous.

Time to decide

When both sides of the stories are told, now it is time to decide. Regardless the root cause of the cheating, you must decide what works best for you. Can you accept & forgive the fact that he had cheated on you? Would you stay by him knowing that there is a chance that he might do that again? Don’t try to keep the broken relationship just because you had been with him for long time. This is personal and the right decision is not the same for all women. If you decide to end the relationship, end it gracefully.

Giving him another chance

If you decide to give him another chance, do not seek for revenge. Having an affair just to get even with him does not make sense. No one would benefit from that. When you have chosen to accept and forgive, payback is not justified. Everybody makes mistake. Since you have made the decision, you should not invoke this matter during future arguments. Evoking the incident is not going to make things better instead it might cause other issues in your relationship.

Seek Counseling

The next step is to seek for couples counseling. It is generally performed by a family therapist. Couples counseling is a confidential and non judgmental process that is aimed to help a couple to better understand and manage problems in the relationship.



Followers

Translate