Showing posts with label affair. Show all posts
Showing posts with label affair. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Love life: Ready, set, not yet! Why not now?
by: Teapot

When it comes to things such as love, rushing into it isn't such a good idea. In every aspect, rushing when it comes to love is a really bad idea no matter what the reason. Whether it may be peer pressure, sexual frustrations, insecurity, or even if you think you're already old and that you need a partner pronto. Love is something that comes to you. It doesn't happen instantly. That's why there are "love stories" because a lot of things happen before it comes. When someone asks your love story and you're like "Uhh, I don't know. I saw her, she looked good, and then I fell in love with her and that's it." The person listening  to you would instantly think that your relationship doesn't have a good foundation and will conclude that sooner or later, your relationship will collapse.
Here's the thing, love isn't made for just boyfriend or girlfriend, or sex, it is made for something beyond that. It is made for marriage. The thought of being with someone for the rest of your life. Being there, not giving up on that person no matter what. In good times and in times of complete hopelessness. If you don't see your current boyfriend or girlfriend as your future husband or wife, then let go. Maybe you're thinking, what if she's really the one? But in the long run, we must always think of what’s best for us and what’s best for the one we love.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

The women pride can kill a man
Women are known to be full of pride and that’s what makes them different from men.  Men do have pride same as women, but men can control of it for the sake of love and devotion.   In every relationship there are many scenarios that men almost got killed because of women’s pride and this is not a joke.  When a man falls in love to a woman he would do everything just to express his feelings and love to that lucky girl and that includes giving up his pride.

Many preachers today focused on pride as being one of the most damaging aspects of the human behavior.  But I would say that depends on to what level you use your pride, some say it could cause sin and could misguide a person.  In a couple’s quarrel pride is the driving force that worsens the condition and in most cases men are the ones surrendering their pride just to end the fight.

Most women put their pride as a very essential thing to everything they do and think.   For instance, when dating and you are late for 5 minutes you better start looking for white roses and practice your  apology, because she is no longer smiling when you see her. Women with pride would not think of your 5 minutes late as a mere natural or unexpected mistake,  but rather an act of betrayal and insincerity to your promises.  Sometimes they only value your politeness and obedience, while your health and safety are being left aside.    They keep telling you what is right for you, and when you advise what's best for them -- they won't listen.   Pride thought them to be superior when they are not, gives them strength when in reality they are weak.  How do you think your relationship would survive if your girlfriend is full of pride?  

How many cases of suicides that struck the world? Many of these suicides were caused of love quarrels and misunderstanding and it is always men have the number of deaths by suicide.   I have witnessed many relationships that men acted like a slave to their women. I don’t think that men deserve to be a slave for the heck of love, but I think that is how the game is played in a relationship.
Because of pride most Women are blinded by the reality that their men have sacrificed everything for them.   Pride makes the woman authoritarian on her decision making, it makes her to demand and demand.  A good relationship should learn to embrace love instead of pride and there you can find real happiness in your relationship.  Our women should be a bit pragmatic on every decision they make and more patience in every hostile situations. Pride kills understanding and patience, and the worst thing it murders Forgiveness.

The root of cheating in relationship is not always because of selfishness of the opposite sex, but because of pride.